Rule 1: In the next ten consecutive days, refuse to dwell on any unresourceful thoughts or feelings.
Rule 2: When you catch yourself beginning to focus on the negative, immediately redirect your focus toward a better emotional state.
Rule 3: For the next ten consecutive days, make sure your focus is on solutions and not problems.
Rule 4: If you backslide, don't beat yourself up! Get right back on track. But if you continue to focus on the negative - for longer than two minutes - you have to wait until the next morning and start the ten days over.
Think about how much your mood and overall quality of life could change if you were to use this exercise to change your thinking patterns for good! How incredibly powerful!
P.S. This is just a small tidbit from this book - it's one of the best of its kind that I've read. Here
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Dear Forest,
This is probably the most powerful
exercise in mental and emotional control I have yet encountered. It is mind over matter, using the mind to control the emotions. It is something I have been kicking around myself, but never realized it could be a guided exercise. Thanks for the
directive.
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